I refuse to be blamed for your misplaced faith.
I refuse to let the scars you gave me affect my future relationships.
I refuse to be manipulated into forced affection.
I refuse to cower in fear in the midst of anger.
I refuse to wake up covered in sweat because of night terrors.
I refuse to prove myself strong when I never needed to.
I refuse to transfer your abuses onto the people around me.
I refuse to deny the healing that God longs to give me.
I refuse to be a victim.
I choose to be a victor.
I choose to accept the healing that God longs to give me.
I choose to believe the best about the people around me.
I choose to be strong in the power of His might.
I choose to wake up with revelations of His love.
I choose to walk in His perfect love that casts out all fear.
I choose to show affection to God first and allow Him to show affection through me.
I choose to maintain healthy relationships with clear boundaries.
I choose to be free from abuses and regrets in my past.
I choose to declare that to God alone belongs all worship, praise and adoration.